Will Someone Younger Carry Forward the Merck Story?
THE STORY TELLERS
We are the chosen.
My feelings are in
each family there is one who seems called to find
the ancestors. To put flesh on their bones and make them live
again,
to tell the family
story and to feel that somehow they know and approve.
To me, doing
genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead,
breathing life
into all who have gone before. We are
the story tellers
of the tribe. All tribes have one. We have been called as it were by
our genes.
Those who have
gone before cry out to us: Tell our
story. So, we do.
In finding them,
we somehow find ourselves. How many
graves have I
stood before now
and cried? I have lost count. How many times have I
told the ancestors
you have a wonderful family you would be proud of
us? How many times have I walked up to a grave and
felt somehow there
was love there for
me? I cannot say.
It goes beyond
just documenting facts. It goes to who
am I and why do
I do the things I
do. It goes to seeing a cemetery about
to be lost
forever to weeds
and indifference and saying I can't let this happen.
The bones here are
bones of my bones and flesh of my flesh. It goes to
doing something
about it.
It goes to pride
in what our ancestors were able to accomplish. How
they contributed
to what we are today. It goes to
respecting their
hardships and
losses, their never giving in or giving up, their
resoluteness to go
on and build a life for their family.
It goes to deep
pride that they fought to make and keep us a Nation.
It goes to a deep
and immense understanding that they were doing it for us.
That we might be
born who we are. That we might remember
them. So we do.
With love and
caring and scribing each fact of their existence,
because we are
them and they are us.
So, as a scribe
called, I tell the story of my family. It
is up to
that one called in
the next generation to answer the call and take
their place in the
long line of family storytellers.
That, is why I do
my family genealogy, and that is what calls those
young and old to
step up and put flesh on the bones.
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